Is my wife lazy, rude, and disrespectful?
Feb 10, 2009 by none | Posted in Marriage & Divorce
I vocation near 50 hours a week and I commute about an hour per day because my wife wanted to be 10 min from her m. I make about 50k.We have one 1 year old daughter and a 3 year old son. My wife works part-time and goes to school online. She works 20
There's only one dominating solution at the moment, major marriage counseling.
If i lived in that situation, i'd put my own pay checks into an account she cannot patch up. Savings as well as checking. I'd give her an allowance, if she's
Brianna | Feb 10, 2009
Unsullied crap. i would put my foot up her a$$. and take the ability to get money away for her so she won't spend.
bankchick | Feb 10, 2009
LOL
yeah your missus is lazy, rude, and disrespectful
╚» Mike «╝ | Feb 10, 2009
I don't have an support for you, but I would like to know, why did you marry her in the first place? Surely she was disrespectful and lazy then. People don't change overnight.
missmojo78 | Feb 10, 2009
give someone a piece of one's mind her to pack up and go
it doesn't sound like she wants to be a wife or a mom
i'm not saying she should do everything but she should do more to help you. relationships are teamwork!
Kimmy | Feb 10, 2009
yes she is i would complete for divorce and move on with my life.pay your child support at least you will have peace of mind.
Donna D | Feb 10, 2009
I'd valid feed her narcotics till she was Hazy, Nude and disreputable
der_grosse_e | Feb 10, 2009
She sounds nasty and immature. I know raising children out of divorce is not ideal but it might be better than them growing up to be like her. If she is napping and enlightenment during the day and your house is a wreck, then I think it's a safe assumption
Me&Pete | Feb 10, 2009
I'm grim for saying this but your wife sounds like a douch bag. I have two small boys, work a full-time job and still do the legislature chores that my hubby does not do. The only things I don't do is clean the bathroom or wash the dishes but everything else,
bellaluce | Feb 10, 2009
This honestly sucks.
All honestly its time for you to put your foot down. She needs to understand how rude of a person she is being.
She just doesnt nurse b like and thats not good for anyone involved.
You guys might
dale m | Feb 10, 2009
wow! this basically boils down to two choices 1. carry on with to let things go as they are, and eventually either your wife will leave you or you will end up strangling her. 2. tell her that you want counseling, and you don't see the promontory of continuing
infinite crisis 247 | Feb 10, 2009
You have to puss the facts here. You married an immature spoiled selfish brat. The car thing.....that's just droll. (Quit giving her a car!)
I say, take all her credit cards and destroy them. Put her on an allowance, or make her use
snoopmish | Feb 10, 2009
Christian solutions? Go to your bible justice now and see what it has to say about abuse. While she is not physically abusing you, her selfishness, dis-respectfulness, name-calling and all that - she is abusing you. The bible does NOT say that you must
Tryna-Hyde | Feb 10, 2009
Wow..She is all of those things and more!!! She has it Data d fabric and she should realize it or another Woman WILL! =)
Luvrgurl22 | Feb 10, 2009
Your mate is and has been doing this for how long, she has got it in the head that you are a soft touch. You love the kids, do you love her? Are you coping with the constraints of workload both at home and work? You have to size up to what she is or has
colinskipper007 | Feb 10, 2009
Well for every bad possession you have said how many good things can you come up with? You have to figure out if it is worth it to you. That sounds like that's her and i doubt you can hard cash that. You have to make a choice and sometimes divorce is better for
cassandrawels | Feb 10, 2009
Ugh.
Your Better half either needs to pull her head out of her ass and stop behaving like a "Princess" that is 5 years old, or she needs to do in all respects what she keeps telling you she is going to do and pack up HER crap and move to Mommy
Staysea | Feb 10, 2009
Your chain is lazy. I think either you need to suggest counseling to figure out why she is so unhappy, because when you let yourself live like that you are hapless. Or you need to talk to her and tell her that if things don't change you might have to
Mom of a lively 2! | Feb 10, 2009
Try talking to her, first of all. Discern her exactly what you said here.
Maybe even try separating for awhile and see how that goes. Maybe without your absence she'll realize how much you do and how much she needs you. Kids own when
Gretchen | Feb 10, 2009
Sordid about your situation. I don't want to dog your wife, but she needs a "reality check" and QUICK.
Sounds like you're raising 3 children at this tactic. You have taken on almost all of the workload at home AND away from home.
Tam | Feb 10, 2009
There's only one pre-eminent solution at the moment, major marriage counseling.
If i lived in that situation, i'd put my own pay checks into an account she cannot allude to. Savings as well as checking. I'd give her an allowance, if she's not responsible
Brianna | Feb 10, 2009
WOW!! Mind-boggling... I'm a wife,my husband works hard,but not as hard as you,when he comes home,dinner is served,blood is clean,kids are taken care of,and well since we don't have washer and dryer we go to a laundry mat and do it together,but before
Mami V | Feb 10, 2009
That's inferior! I am so sorry! Wow...you need to have a "Come to Jesus" talk with her...she does not live in Aristotelianism entelechy!!
Ts | Feb 10, 2009
You strike one like my husband. He works all the time and still does so much extra around the house. I feel bad because I cannot work and usurp out in that way. I still try to do little things to help him out, though, like take him coffee or surprise him with
Stephanie D | Feb 10, 2009
man i specify i had a man like you instead i have a man who barely works and does nothing around the house(unless i bitch at him) what am i doing impolitic?
dz | Feb 10, 2009
ok ok ok, immaculate crap. Whay you need to do, is, next time she thretens to pack it all up and take the kids to her parents say "I evaluate that's a good idea." Let her stomp off, take the kids (it will be nice for them to spend time with their grandparents)
dimond | Feb 10, 2009
Truly, I would sit down and have a talk with her.
Calling her names and things online is going to do nothing for your relationship. When you get home tonight I would basically rebuke her its shape up or ship out. But in a nice way :)
cσltєns mσmmч | Feb 10, 2009
i was about to ask you why you are still with this b@tch but manifestly it's "for the kids." there really is nothing more amazing to witness than an enabler in action.
while i can respect the have one's heart set on to keep the household in
Mayor McCheese, The Infamous | Feb 10, 2009
Not to be indecent but I can't tell if this is a real question or not it all seems too fantastic. The simple answer is that if it is a joke, it is too long and horrible to be queer. If you are serious, I understand your reasoning but her actions are having
RobberBarronA.T.Cunningham XIIII | Feb 10, 2009
How to get rid of fruit flies?
Aug 18, 2010 by Cat N | Posted in Other - Home & Garden
Somehow there has been a mini infestation of fruit flies in our kitchen, I testify theres about 50 of them! I haven't been able to go to the store to get anything because I'm ill. However I've improvised with what we do have.
I've thrown away anything
The flies palpable for about 6 days. You have the right stuff for catching the adults. They must be laying eggs some where. Fruit flies amity refrigerators. There might be some moisture under it. If they are hovering over the drain, some baking
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